I need some help with family issues..?

I was in that situation but my mom and her boyfriend didn't work out. I don't think it's right that your mom is moving for him. He should be the gentleman and take the time and trouble to move for your lady parent. Plus who will take care of you if your mom is gone while you stay in Pennsylvania? Also if you don't like her boyfriend and daughter (why?) then you should tell your mother. I know you would like your mom to be happy but she needs to know because isn't it the number one priority of the parent to care for the child. I remember my mom had a boyfriend and he was thinking of beating me (BEAT BEAT) when she's not home so my mom broke up with him because she loved her kids which she's known longer more than some abuser.